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Saturday, November 28, 2015

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Subang Jaya Branch Thanks Giving Party 28 Nov 2015

IMG_3416 Today is Subang Jaya Branch Thanks Giving Party. Earlier on, we had assigned to do salad for the party. Alvin and I were buying all the needed ingredients for the salad making.

Alvin was thinking of making our own salad dressing with fresh mints leaves together with some orange juice together with some vinegar.

We did buy some lamb chop, beef steak and pork chop as Alvin wanted to mix in the salad as well.

IMG_3421 Early morning, we woke up early and pan fried all the meats first before we went out for Jane Yap Atelier – both Issac and Annabelle art class.

After the Saturday art class with the children came back from Citta Mall, we quickly put into action as preparing all the vegetables, slicing all the meats, then pack and we went off heading to PJ chapel for the party.

Once we were there, we met most of the Subang Jaya Branch members. All the sisters were in the kitchen busy cooking, busy preparing all the food.

IMG_3429The party was started at 5.00pm as planned. It was started with the opening hymns and opening prayer, after is the sharing of Elder Smith on the meaning and purpose of Thanks Giving.

Then Elder Dacayanan, Sister Koford and Sister Kautaua too sharing some gospel. I was behind the kitchen helping the sisters on the food arrangements.

IMG_3423 Alvin and both kids were in front there participating on the games which were prepared by the Missionary and Brother Benjamin.

Later, I came out from the kitchen and watch the teams playing games. It was really so fun just looking at them.

There were at least 3 games which Elders and Sisters prepared for the evening. I can see both Issac and his daddy Alvin too, enjoying the games so much. Annabelle and I were watching them playing.

IMG_3436 After the games finished, there was a session, Elder Smith asked us everyone of us to write a Thank You note for all the branch Missionaries whom are spreading out there: Elder Dunstan Chi and Elder Brian Chi, Elder Marino (Johnny), Elder Rasaratnam (Tanasegar) and Sister Yong (Marion). We have to write a small note to them. I was assigned to write to Johnny. He is serving a mission currently now at Mukah, Sarawak.

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After the Thank You note, Brother Benjamin closed the session with a closing prayer and blessed the food. Then, we started our Thanks Giving Feast.

Everything prepared were so nice, there are spaghetti, mash potatoes, roast chickens, etc. The food were too much as all the sisters prepare for 50 people, eventually only 30 people turn up. Our salads also, left over about another tray too.

IMG_3443During the dinner time, we did mingle around with the members and shared with them, on our temple trip experience. They were asking about our trip too. Overall the party ended around 9.00pm, after we clean up the church area, we went back home.

We will going to miss Subang Jaya branch members, as we took really a year to learn and grow at here after our family had been baptized.

Now we have to go back to our home branch – Puchong branch to stay. Both Alvin and I believe that Lord know the best for us, and it is time for us to go back to Puchong and continue to learn His gospel, progress, grow and holding on to the iron rod.

Friday, November 27, 2015

Cebu Taoist Temple 16 Nov 2015

IMG_3130 Monday we continued our Cebu adventure by exploring and went to the Taoist Temple, as it is not really our interest by going to there, but feeling like we have came to Cebu, as it is like we have not fully explored this city.

We took a cab to there, the area is located in the high-end Beverly Hills subdivision in Cebu City, as we passed by the residential areas, we can see a lot of bungalows with huge land area.

IMG_0769The temple was built by the Chinese community of Cebu. The towering, multicoloured tourist attraction has an elevation of 300 meters above sea level and is accessible by three separate winding routes.

The Taoist Temple is open to worshipers and non-worshipers. Built in 1972, the temple is the center of worship for Taoism, which follows the teachings of Lao Tze, an ancient Chinese philosopher.

IMG_0759According to locals whom believe rituals for the devotees to pray to the gods for their wishes to be granted. The ritual also includes the washing of hands, entering the chapel barefoot and dropping two blocks of wood.

If both blocks of wood fall face up, then the wish will be granted. If not, then perhaps the time has not come yet for the wish to be granted, and one has to come back to the temple at another time.

Another ritual among the devotees, done during Wednesdays and Sundays, is the climbing of its 99 steps to light joss sticks and have their fortune read by the monks.

IMG_3105All these rituals are so familiar to us, as it have formed one of our Chinese cultures and customs throughout our growing years, as all these are nothing new to us.

Reaching the top would also reward is a marvellous view of Cebu City and the islands of Mactan and Bohol in the distance.

The temple includes a replica of the Great Wall of China at the entrance, chapel, a library, a souvenir shop, spacious balconies, and a wishing well. Also remarkable is the giant dragon statue.

IMG_0762The temple is constructed in a highly ornate style of Chinese architecture and is topped with a pagoda-style roof. Present in Taoist architecture are structures according to their functions, categorized as palace for oblation and sacrifice, altar for praying and offering, cubby for religious service, and garden for visitors.

The Taoist Temple is one of the most popular tourist spots in the city. Travel agencies usually include trips to the Taoist Temple in their tour packages. It also gets frequent visits from students for their field trips.

IMG_3121The Taoist Temple is a beautiful place to meditate and relax. One can definitely do some soul-searching in its sprawling gardens and astonishing view with the benefit of fresh air. Discover and appreciate a taste of Chinese culture in the Taoist Temple, and open yourself up to a brilliant, whole new experience.

It was really a hot hot day as all of us were extremely exhausted after visiting the Temple, and we have to walk down from the hill as the cabs seldom go up there as it is a high end residential area. It was so lucky for us to get a cab which the driver send us down to the hill, and from there we able to get a cab to drive us to Colon Street.

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Kiddos Public Speaking Sessions 26 Nov 2015

During I was fetching both Issac and Annabelle at Mahkota Tuition Centre, Kim Thai showed me the videos of two kids trying their best in speaking in the public and recording at the same time.

It was a surprise that, Annabelle was the first kid whom volunteer to go out first as the ‘first speaker’. All the children been guided by the contents of the speech as like, what they should talk first, name, age, where are they studying, where do they live, and so on.

Kim Thai praised this two little angels really good in presenting themselves. She told me that, I would be surprised to hear that the naughtiest boy in the class that always disturbing other children was the most afraid one, if asked him stand in front of so many people and speak in the public!

I am so blessed that have this two little angels in my life!




Wednesday, November 25, 2015

SM City Cebu 12-15 Nov 2015

IMG_0665 The distance from our hotel to the SM City Cebu actually is not far, as it is just a few minutes of walking distance, and it is kind of easy for us to look for our food when we feel hungry each time. It was the nearest and so convenient for us just to buy and shop anything.

It is near Christmas, thus all around the mall was nicely decorated with Christmas ornaments and trees and lights and stars. There was the first thing we noticed when we were on our way to the Temple on the first day we landed Cebu, we can see some of the stars shape decorations were hanging all over the city.

IMG_3074We were curious what was that, and asked the cab driver on that, he told us that it was for the Christmas decorations. It is so early to us, as now Malaysia is busy celebrating the Deepavali.

SM City Cebu currently is the 11th largest mall on the planet, it is a sprawling four-level complex that features eight world-class cinemas, a department store, a food court, a bowling centre, a traveller's lounge, an 8,000-square meter amusement centre and a 2,000-square meter trade hall. It hosts about 500 retail shops, restaurants and cafes.

IMG_3077SM City Cebu first opened in November 1993, catering more to the broad middle class in comparison to Ayala Centre Cebu, which targets a more upscale market.

To the delight of Cebuano mall-goers, an expansion wing, dubbed the North wing, opened in 2007. The North wing offers two floors of retail shops, restaurants and cafes, and caters more to the leisure market.

SM City Cebu proves that variety is the spice of life. You can find an array of exciting food choices, from fast food chains to elegant fine dining restaurants. You can also experience retail heaven with its many shops such as Oxygen, Penshoppe, Mango, Topshop, Promod, People Are People, The Body Shop, National Bookstore, Ace Hardware, Toy Kingdom, Toby’s Sport and much more.

IMG_3078 Movie buffs are also treated to a whole new cinematic experience with SM’s 3-D IMAX theatre, which opened in late 2009. We were thinking of going to watch the movie but most of the movies screening at that time were 18SG, not suitable at all for our children. Then, we just window shopping and see the huge Christmas Tree which is at the Ground Floor Foyer area.

Another thing which draw our attention and impressed us a lot is the security personnel in the shopping mall. Almost every shopping malls either old or new, big or small, until in the individual retail shop alone, we can see smartly dressed security personnel guarding at every entrance.

IMG_3076 They looked so professional compared back home here in Malaysia, whereby most of the security guards at the banks, shopping malls are foreigner, either Bangladeshi, Nepalese, Burmese, or Vietnamese. It is so different here in Philippines. They even having a small first aid kit at their back just in case any incident happened.

We were thinking in my mind like: It is really a shame to us Malaysian, as we are so choosy on the jobs, whereby what can I see from Cebu is that Pilipino really building up their nations as all the jobs are fully filled by their own nations, even to the security guards positions!

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Mandaue Philippines Stake Conference 15 Nov 2015

IMG_3046 It was a special Sabbath to us, as we were at Cebu City Philippines. In the morning, we went to the Temple ground again as there is a Sacrament Hall for the local members.

We woke up as early as 7.00am, as Brother Aden would be meeting us at the Bayfront Hotel Lobby and drove us to the Temple for our sacrament meeting, after which he invited us to go to his stake conference – Mandaue Philippines Stake Conference.

During when we were at the hotel lobby, we saw Brother Aden’s friend, the taxi driver to drive us to the Temple. He called Brother Aden on his hand phone, then passed the phone to Alvin.

IMG_3048After a while, Alvin told us to take the taxi and the driver would drove us to the temple. Brother Aden’s baby was not feeling well as he need to bring him see doctor first in the morning, and he had called his friend to fetch us to the Temple.

We reached there early, as we thought that the first sacrament will start as early as 8.30am. Then, we told the taxi driver to be back here around 9.30am, and took us to Hoops Dome, where the Stake Conference would be held.

We met a brother there as he is the temple chief security, he told us that the first session of the sacrament would start only at 9.00am. I was thinking like, are we able to catch up the stake conference later?

IMG_3049Eventually, there were more and more members coming in to the Sacrament Hall. We met with the Bishop of the ward, but I really cannot recall which Ward was that. It was really a brand new experience for us to attend a ward sacrament meeting.

The sacrament meeting was attended by around 180 people as we saw the deacons who passed the 5 trays of sacrament bread and 5 trays of sacrament waters to the members. The assigned speakers too, were really uplifted our spirits.

At the sacrament meeting, we met with one Chinese, Brother Yew. He was delighted to get to know us that our last name is Yu as well.

IMG_3051Brother Yew told us that, we might be related in that sense as 俞氏is originated from 余氏。He was born in Cebu as his parents were born here too as well. He is the 3rd generations here in Philippines as his grandfather and grandmother were from China.

Brother Yew is a Chinese Teacher here in Cebu. I believe he must be doing a lot of the family history works as he knew most of the China genealogy and all about related to his last name. It was really a pleasure to meet up with him.

After the sacrament meeting, we quickly rushed out and checked whether the taxi driver still there. Yes! He still there waiting for us. He took us to the Lapu-Lapu City which is located at the Mactan island, we have to cross the bridge. After almost half an hour, we reached the Hoops Dome. It is a stadium.

IMG_3052Brother Aden was waiting for us outside. He brought us in to the stadium. There were a lot of people in and out of the stadium.

From one look, we knew that we were at the right place, as we can see most of the men and boys were wearing white shirts, long pants and with ties.

The stake conference had started already. Brother Aden gave us the programs flyers. Actually, it is same as our district conference too, it started at Saturday night itself.

I think we arrived at the right timing, after a while Cebu East Mission President, President President Richard L. Tanner gave his speech.

IMG_3055After him, was Elder Allen D. Haynie whom was sustained as a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy last April General Conference. I still remember his talk last October at the General Conference. Both Alvin and I can feel the spirit very strongly.

After the conference, Brother Aden introduce us to his ward bishop. We waited for a while to meet up with President and Sister Tanner, and took a photo with both of them.

We met with Elder Allen D. Haynie, I did talk to him for a while. He is so humble and a very nice person. I was so regret that we did not take the opportunity to take a family photo together with him, but we feel so uplifted on that special Sabbath.

IMG_3058During our way going out from the stadium, we met up with Brother Luis D. Daclan whom sealed us as a family on Friday in the temple.

He was surprised and happy to meet us at the Stake Conference too. We took photo together with him. We have our family photo with Brother Aden and his pretty wife and baby boy too.

We are so grateful and happy for our first ever temple trip, as we are able to accomplish most of our goals: accomplished our own endowments in the temple; our family sealing in the temple; we baptized for our own mother and father in the temple; we attended our first ever ward sacrament meeting, we attended our first ever stake conference; we managed to meet with Cebu East Mission President, President & Sister Tanner; we managed to meet with Elder Allen D. Haynie from the First Quorum of the Seventy.

IMG_3062We feel the love from Heavenly Father on our family as we know that He has planned this trip so well and so wonderful for us, as we are able to meet with the beautiful members or saints in this part of the world, get to know them and Brother Aden even invited us to attend the Stake Conference, and shared his testimony with us. All these beautiful and wonderful experience would not be happened if not by the hand of the Lord who knoweth all things!

We love you so much, Heavenly Father. I say this in the name of our beloved Jesus Christ, Amen.

Monday, November 23, 2015

Colon Street Cebu 14 Nov 2015

IMG_0727 Before we came here, we were hearing a lot about the Colon Street, which we can buy all sorts of things cheaply in Cebu. After our visit at The Heritage of Cebu Monument, we just took a cab and stopped at one of the shopping mall at Colon Street. The taxi driver told us, it is very near only, we just can’t take the heat anymore, it is ok with us.

IMG_0732 Colon Street is a very busy and crowded street in downtown Cebu City. It is proudly known as the oldest street in the Philippines. It was named after Cristobal Colon (Christopher Columbus). Colon Street was built during the time of the Spanish colonization. It was developed by Miguel Lopez de Legaspi, the Spanish explorer who arrived in the Philippines in 1565.

IMG_0733 Colon Street, a bit run-down now, used to be the heart of Cebu’s shopping and business district. It was the central site of fashionable shops, boutiques, restaurants, offices and movie houses. In recent years though, with the American mall culture arriving in the Philippines in the 1990s, there was a significant shift of activity to the uptown malls and business establishments.

IMG_0734 Still, Colon is presently a huge and vital site of economic activity as shoppers of all walks of life still flock to Colon to search for cheap, economical goods to get more value for their money. It remind me back to our home Kuala Lumpur the Petaling Street, even though it is a bit shorter or the Rock Road down town Kuala Lumpur.

IMG_0753 Colon Street became the center for commercial activities in downtown Cebu. Over the years, it continued as the lifeline of trade and commerce in colonial Cebu. It was also the place where numerous significant social and cultural events took place. People can shop for clothes, bags, jewelry, school supplies, electronic supplies, hardware, groceries, and much more. Colon is the very economical choice for shopping for various items, as you can get more and pay less.

IMG_0757 Through the years, Colon has seen the varying phases of the economic and political atmosphere of Cebu. Many universities such as the University of San Carlos, University of Cebu, University of the Visayas, and the University of San Jose-Recoletos were built near or along Colon Street, as it was identified as the center of commerce and trade.

IMG_0758 Presently, Colon is lined with numerous food and business establishments. A busy and active place during day and night, Colon is filled with shopping malls, fast food and commonplace restaurants, fashion boutiques, surplus shops, bargain stores and movie houses. It is even said that almost anything can be found in Colon, and you can have it for a much, much cheaper price, too.

An obelisk detailing Colon Street’s historical significance was constructed on its northern end. In the hearts of most Cebuanos, past and present, are memories of this street. Especially for today’s elders, they have many memories of how Colon Street used to be when they were younger. Colon seems to be a witness of many worlds of time. For Cebu, Colon Street is familiar to the mind and close to the heart.

We ended our Saturday half afternoon trip with here, whereby we took a cab back to hotel and let children took a rest, as we were busy and tired for the whole day. Later on, both Daddy and Mummy came out again to SM City Cebu for our dinner, and we took our time do our window shopping and of coarse we packed some food for the children at the hotel, as well for our Sunday breakfast too.

Sunday, November 22, 2015

The Heritage of Cebu Monument 14 Nov 2015

IMG_2999 On our way to the monument, we passed through the Cathedral Museum of Cebu. Daddy did not intend to go in as we saw a lot of paintings and portraits were displaying in the building.

By looking at both children were really stretching their physical limits by walking through so many sites under the hot sun, we just thinking of reaching our next destination.

A short walk from Cebu Metropolitan Cathedral, we soon find the prestigious Heritage of Cebu Monument which is located in the original Plaza Parain in Colon Street, Cebu City.

IMG_3004The Heritage of Cebu Monument is a tableau of sculptures made of concrete, bronze, brass and steel showing scenes about events and structures related to the history of Cebu.

From the time of Rajah Humabon to the recent beatification of Cebuano martyr Pedro Calunsod. The monument is a work of national artist Edgardo Castrillo. It was started in July 1997 and inaugurated on December 8, 2000.

Local artist Eduardo Castrillo built the sculptures of the Cebu Heritage Monument. He and the late Senator Marcelo Fernan together with donations from other private individuals and organizations funded the construction of the monument.

IMG_0718The structures depicted in the Heritage Monument are the Basilica del Santo Niño, the Cebu Metropolitan Cathedral, the Saint John the Baptist Church, the Magellan’s Cross, and a Spanish Galleon.

The scenes depicted in the Heritage Monument are the baptism of Rajah Humabon, a procession of the Santo Niño, a Roman Catholic mass, and the Battle of Mactan between Lapu-Lapu and Ferdinand Magellan. The persons depicted in the monument include the late president Sergio Osmena Sr. and Blessed Pedro Calungsod.

IMG_0722We do not realise that the Parian District is a historical area. which during the Spanish period was home to the residences of the most prominent families in Cebu at that time.

The St. John the Baptist Church previously stood on the site of the monument’s location. However, the diocese of Cebu demolished the church in 1875.

The Yap-San Diego House is part of the Casa Gorordo Museum complex, which is a private museum open to the public. The museum complex highlights the lifestyle of a rich household in Cebu during the Spanish era and displays antique furnishings, clothes, kitchen equipment and utensils, and other antique items.

Thus, we did not go to above places, from there we took a cab and get to the famous Colon Street.