Between...Husband and Wife...Mother and Children...God and Myself...
Perfect... Imperfection... Seeking A Balance...
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Alphabetical Play
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Drinking Cup
Monday, November 9, 2009
Question to be Answered
Yet, another day of busyness and restless… Received call from Boss about the evening time, mentioning on some work issues: others departments complaining me that not efficient enough to finalise the contractors for the project to kick off, I am to absorb everything to myself and did not share the workload out, bullied by the contractors, not a good negotiator, etc. I am just listening, listening and listening. This really made me wonder, am I really not that competent enough? Is it time for me to something else? something new? something different? I though during Ham was here like that, but when he is gone also like that. Actually, I did not expect much when Ham was leaving the company, all the paper works was done by myself all this while. Comments like that made me feel like am I not that ‘worth’? Or overpaying? Here comes the question again: do I need to leave for something new? for both win-win situation?Hmmm…
No Time for Problems
Parents are usually too busy to solve problems, they just live through them! Pick a problem in your life. Be brave and take a minute to write down the problem in the middle of a blank sheet of paper. Brainstorm every solution you can think of. Don’t let your solutions be judged by whether or not they seem possible at this time. Your brainstorming solutions are like seeds planted in a field – one will take root over time and begin to grow. Feeling and expressing the problem will make you feel better, even if no immediate solution is at hand.
~ 59, Writing Exercise, 365 Days of Baby Love
Aquaria KLCC 8 Nov 2009
We were so excited today, as we go to Aquaria KLCC today. Daddy drive our car to the nearby Putra LRT station at Amcorp Mall, Taman Jaya station. From there, we travel through the LRT to KLCC station. Once we stepped in the station, Issac and Annabelle were so excited.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Being Balance…
I was so tensed these past two weeks. Rushing, rushing and rushing. Rushing for works deadlines as the job sites will be started soon by next week; rushing for fetching babies; rushing for cooking their dinner; rushing for washing dishes; rushing for laundry; rushing for taking own bath; and struggling to strive for private time and some sleep. And, thinking of Prudential biz sometimes had made me feel worse…Thus, I had seeking some advice from Renee.
Hi Renee, every time very excited when seeing you got update in face book, and most of the time is at morning 4am. I just wonder how you can do it? Actually, I have been struggling between working, kids and my private time. Back from working, is very stress already, cooking, household and everything made me feel very restless. Can share with me, how you plan your time balance between the family time, working and kids and your private time? Eager to learn from you...Thank you”
hahahha.....i wake up as early as 4am to play FB. Mostly I sleep early like 10.30pm or 11pm. No choice. Otherwise I cannot do things l like. House chores share by both of us. I also have weekly maid to do the cleaning. I dun cook during week days. only weekends. sometimes dun have enough sleep.... my kids can play by themselves. so, no need 100% attention.”
I think I have no choice that I have to cook for dinner for everyday, because Brainchild and Fernie’s place do not include dinner for the day care and I have to do it. Probably the things that I can change will be the timing, sleep at 11.00pm and wake up early as 4.00am or 4.30am for my private time. This is the thing that I can do and change. Sleep early rather than late. Wake up early rather than late. Good health and good life. Good habits.
Letter to Yourself
Sometimes when moms and dads get caught up in daily duties like care giving and work they lose sight of the larger picture of their lives. Seeing the larger picture means being able to see the present day as part of whole lifetime. Take a few minutes today and write a letter. The letter will be from your 20 year old child written to you. Start the letter like this:
Dear Mom and Dad,
I learned so many thing from you about life…..
During the hardest parts of my life you…
When I didn’t know what decisions to make…..
Add whatever you want to this letter, date it, and keep it. Shaping and guiding a child is a life’s work that merely starts with how you talk to baby on the changing table. What you do, say, and model to your child creates a life. In other words, what you are doing is important work. Remember that the next time you wake up at 4.00am to feed or soothe your little darling!
~ 66 Writing Exercise, 365 Days of Baby Love
Sunday, November 1, 2009
USJ 19 Digital Mall 26 Apr 2009
Another place of our outing place for 1 or 2 hours at the mall just for a walk and our breakfast normally and a little bit of shopping - USJ 19 Digital Mall near our place…^^
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Mydin Hypermarket USJ 24 Apr 2009
Ha-ha…This time is the walking elephant besides the Mary-go-round…^^